Countless couples – possibly nearly all couples who have spent more than a year or two together – have experienced a loss of interest in sex by one partner or the other. Often this causes real distress. One partner may end up feeling rejected, unloved, and frustrated, while the other may feel guilty and inadequate. … More Is Desire Necessary?
If the problem persists for some time, the higher-desire partner usually reports that he or she has also lost interest. “I can only take so much rejection,” they will report, “and after a while I just gave up.” Their partner’s lack of interest may have led to their own loss of confidence and they respond by shutting down their own sexual desire. … More Lost That Lovin’ Feeling? 6 Ways to Jump-Start Desire
For a couple where one partner has ADHD, the symptoms of disorganization, distractibility, poor impulse control and difficulty following through may lead to chronic resentment, anger, arguing and distress for both partners. Marriage can be a challenge, but there is hope. … More When a Spouse has ADHD
…by asking for help, you are one of the stronger ones. … More Reaching out for help: Why it’s hard, why you should do it anyway
This post is borrowed from the Psychology Today blog, and was written by Mark Goulston, M.D. What does it take to be happy in a relationship? If you’re working to improve your marriage, here are the 10 habits of happy couples. 1. Go to bed at the same time Remember the beginning of your relationship, when … More Ten Habits of Happy Couples
The New York Times posted a blog recently that examined the ingredients for a happy marriage. As anyone married longer than 6 months can tell you, sustaining a happy marriage is not as simple as it may seem. Ask yourself, “What can I do in 5 minutes today to make my partner’s life better?” For … More For a happy marriage, say 5 positive things for every negative one, and find new ways to experience desire
by Emily Kahn-Freedman, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist It’s been a long day and you’ve had another long argument with your spouse. You’ve aired all your grievances and made crystal clear all the ways he has to change. Finally you’ve decided that it’s about time to look for help – marriage counseling might fix the … More Couple Therapy: Are you ready for it?